How many DMs should I send a day?

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I’ll cut the fat and just say:

Aim for 50+ DMs a Day, or Go Home.

That's right, 50.

Not 5, not 10, fifty freakin' DMs every single day.

If that sounds insane, good.

It should rattle your cage a bit.

Why 50?

Because anything less is just dipping your toe in the water while the sharks (your competitors) are diving in headfirst.

If you're in sales, networking, freelancing, or just hustling for connections on platforms like LinkedIn, X, or Instagram, volume is your secret weapon.

Start small if you're a wimp.

Build up from 20, but don't pat yourself on the back until you're hitting that half-century mark consistently.

Think about it: The average person checks their messages sporadically, and response rates hover around 10-20% on a good day.

Do the math: send 10 DMs, and you might get one measly reply.

Send 50? That's 5-10 solid leads, conversations, or opportunities knocking at your door.

Stop playing small-ball; it's time to swing for the fences.

Why Bother? Because Playing It Safe is for Losers!

Alright, to those who are sceptical let's break this down.

You're probably thinking, "But won't I come off as spammy?

Won't people block me?"

Grow a spine bro.

This is why I am able to close 10 clients a month and you don’t.

Done right, high-volume DMing isn't spam;

It's strategic aggression.

Here's why cranking up the volume is worth every keystroke:

1. Numbers Don't Lie It's a Game of Odds: Rejection? Get over it. For every 10 "no's," there's a "yes" waiting. Sending more DMs multiplies your chances exponentially. I've seen hustlers turn cold outreach into six-figure deals just by out-sending the competition. If you're not getting ignored sometimes, you're not reaching far enough.

2. Builds Momentum and Sharpens Your Edge: The more you send, the better you get. Your messages evolve from awkward hellos to killer pitches. It's like reps in the gym. If you skip them, and you stay flabby. Plus, consistent outreach trains algorithms to favor you, pushing your profile higher in feeds.

3. Time Efficiency on Steroids: Batch your DMs, and you're done in under an hour. Tools like automation (ethically, no bots that violate TOS) or templates let you scale without breaking a sweat. Why waste days on one perfect email when 50 quick DMs could land you multiple wins?

4. Psychological Warfare on Your Comfort Zone: Low-volume senders stay stuck in fear mode. High-volume? You build resilience. Each send chips away at that inner voice saying "don't bother them." Soon, you're unbreakable, and opportunities flow because you're the one initiating, not waiting.

Your boss will think you’re a genius

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Bottom line: Sending more isn't just worth it, It's non-negotiable if you want to dominate.

The scared get trampled while the bold get to win.

To Do It Without Getting Banned or Hated:

Don't go blasting nonsense like a maniac. Aggression without strategy is stupidity.

Here's the no-BS breakdown on executing this like a pro:

1. Target Smart, Not Scattershot: Research your list. Use platform searches to find people in your niche prospects, influencers, collaborators. Tools like LinkedIn Sales Navigator or X's advanced search help pinpoint the right inboxes. No randoms; aim for relevance to keep response rates high and complaints low.

2. Craft Killer Templates, Then Personalize: Start with this basic script: "Hey [Name], loved your post on [Topic]. Quick thought: [Value-Add Idea]. What's your take?" Tweak for each person, mention a recent post or shared connection. Keep it short (under 100 words), value-first, and end with a clear call-to-action like "Reply if interested?"

3. Batch and Schedule Like a Boss: Dedicate time blocks morning for research, afternoon for sending. Use built-in features or approved extensions to queue messages. Track everything in a spreadsheet: Who, when, response? Analyze and refine weekly.

4. Follow Up Fiercely, But Respectfully: No reply in 3-5 days? With a polite nudge: "Bumping this up, still curious about your thoughts." Limit to 2-3 follow-ups max. If they ghost, move on. Always include an opt-out: "Reply 'stop' if this isn't for you."

5. Stay Compliant and Human: Obey platform rules, no automation that mimics humans illegally. Be genuine; people smell fakes. If you get pushback, apologize and learn. Build relationships, not just transactions.